Thursday, October 10, 2013

A No is step closer to a YES

Nobody likes rejections. Especially you have a purpose and something to offer to touch others, then someone just slap on your face, tells you to leave and stop wasting their time. How you deal with that? When rejection is given to you, immediately our ego kicks in to defense ourselves. "what I do is great and it is beneficial to you. why you say no, this is ridiculously, you must be a crazy person to reject my offer!" We refuse to believe may be the person has no interest in what we can offer in the first place.  Then our judgement kicks in. " he must be crazy, he must be a self- insecure person, that person must doesn't have proper education to under what I am trying to communicate" We deny the fact, the simple fact that he is not interested, move on to the next one. Sometime people over think this rejection for days, a nobody suddenly has impact in your life just because he rejected you. The cure to the rejection is.. move on to the next one. wipe out the tears, throw away all the angers, deep breath, then move on to the next one. Now you know what rejection is like, after went through a rejection. Hey I survive someone's nasty rejection, it was actually no so bad. Then next time when you go into situation involves with rejection, you know what to expect. If you are lucky enough and person you are communicating with is ready to take on your offer. Then deal is done. it is Yes. but remember every No is getting you closer closer and closer to the next Yes. Someone will say yes and that is going to touch your life, that person's life and whoever you are going to share the experience with. Good luck and don't let one rejection be the blocking stone on your path to success.

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